It doesn't take much to judge a person with an unrighteous judgement. "I remember you when....." or measuring your strengths against another person's weakness(comparing). "Why him/her, I'm good at...." Remembering that a good thing isn't necessarily a God thing.
"But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” 1 Samuel 16:7
I'm reminded that haters just might bless you and sometimes those you think are hater are inadvertently pushing you to move into purpose.
Instead of judging, I'm reminded that it takes unity to build a community.
Things don't always look like what you see